Your Voice, Your Story: How to Create the Perfect Bespoke Engagement Ring—In-Depth Questions Real Couples Ask

Your Voice, Your Story: How to Create the Perfect Bespoke Engagement Ring—In-Depth Questions Real Couples Ask

 

An engagement ring is more than jewellery; it is a promise cast in precious metal, a symbol of love that holds heritage, memory and meaning. At LKC, working with clients to create bespoke engagement rings in New Zealand and across the globe is not simply a service; it is a collaboration shaped by conversation, trust and artistry.

The questions below are inspired by what real couples ask us every day. From design to sourcing, trends to care, this guide offers insight for those who want more than a ring; they want a story told in gold, diamonds, and intention.

How Is a Bespoke Engagement Ring Designed in your Auckland Studio?

 

Designing a bespoke engagement ring with Layla Kaisi Collection is an immersive and highly considered experience that begins well before the first sketch is drawn. Our Auckland studio serves as both creative sanctuary and atelier—where clients are invited into a world of rarity, intention, and true luxury.

The process begins with a private design consultation, either in-person at our Auckland studio or through a virtual consultation for our international clients. This isn’t a transactional meeting, it’s a conversation where we seek to deeply understand who you are, what this piece represents in your life, and how you want it to feel. From symbolic elements to personal histories, every detail you share becomes inspiration. Some clients also share existing LKC pieces they adore; others bring only an idea, a feeling or even a single word that holds meaning.

Once we understand your story, Layla begins the design process, translating narrative into vision through detailed sketches and computer-aided designs, allowing you to visualise every curve, stone placement and subtle detail; with an emphasis on sculptural form, balance, and enduring elegance. You’ll review detailed renders and provide feedback until the design is exactly right. With your choice of platinum or gold—18ct or 14ct, in yellow, white or rose—you are guided by our expertise in how different tones suit your skin, lifestyle and aesthetic.

Following this, Layla curates a selection of ethically sourced diamonds or rare precious stones from our global network of trusted suppliers. These aren’t stones you’ll find anywhere else, they’re chosen for their beauty, uniqueness, and alignment with your values and investment. You’ll be guided through the selection process to choose a centre stone that speaks to you, with complete transparency on provenance, value, and quality.

At LKC, ethical sourcing is non-negotiable. Every gram of NZ gold is responsibly traced, chosen for its integrity as much as its beauty. The crafting itself is a hands-on ritual: our master jewellers shape, refine and finish every band by hand, with every surface treated as a canvas.

From there, your ring is brought to life by our team of Auckland-based master jewellers, who craft each element with meticulous precision. The entire process typically spans 3–6 months depending on complexity, though we offer a more tailored timeline during your consultation.

The result is not just a ring; it is a personal masterpiece forged from artistry, trust and intention.

How Do I Design a Bespoke Engagement Ring with LKC as an International Client or Remote Client?

 

We work with private clients all over the world, and designing a bespoke engagement ring with Layla Kaisi Collection from abroad is every bit as personal, seamless, and considered as if you were sitting with us in our Auckland studio.

The process begins with a virtual consultation, where you’ll meet directly with Layla via video call. This is a deeply personal conversation designed to understand your story, aesthetic preferences, values, and the emotional significance behind the piece. Whether you're designing a ring for a proposal or together as a couple, we tailor the entire experience to your pace and vision.

Following this, Layla curates a selection of rare diamonds or coloured precious stones from our international network, each chosen for its beauty, symbolism, and alignment with your budget. You’ll receive high-resolution imagery, video, and detailed certification for each stone, so you can make your selection with complete clarity and confidence, no matter where you are in the world.

Layla also designs your piece from the ground up like with all of our clientele. You’ll be guided through every step, from initial sketches to detailed digital renders, with room for feedback and refinement along the way. Work is presented digitally with access to your personal folder 24/7. 

Your ring is then handcrafted by our master jewellers in Auckland with the same level of care, precision, and artistry we offer every client. Once complete, it is securely and fully insured for express international delivery to your location, wherever you may be.

We pride ourselves on offering a bespoke experience that feels intimate, collaborative, and effortless; no matter the distance. Our international clients often tell us that even across oceans, the experience feels like being part of something rare and sacred.


Extravagant bespoke engagement ring designed by Layla Kaisi Collection.

What Should You Know About Ethical Diamonds and Responsible Sourcing?

 

For many couples, the diamond is the soul of their ring; and choosing one responsibly adds deeper meaning to its beauty. Ethical diamonds are sourced in ways that protect both people and the environment. At LKC, we offer natural diamonds carefully selected for their integrity, rarity and emotional resonance.

Our natural diamonds are ethically sourced, conflict-free and carefully selected from trusted partners who strictly follow the Kimberley Process and additional environmental safeguards. Every stone is traceable and we maintain complete transparency throughout the design process, ensuring you can feel confident in both its beauty and its origins.

Choosing an ethical diamond means your ring carries not just love, but also responsibility; a story that honours both your relationship and the world around it.

What Are the Biggest Engagement Ring Trends in New Zealand and Beyond for 2025?

 

New Zealand couples are moving beyond tradition, embracing designs that blend timeless beauty with deeply personal expression.

Vintage revival is making a bold return, with many clients gravitating toward Art Deco, Victorian, and antique-inspired aesthetics. Think geometric silhouettes, milgrain detailing, and step-cut stones like emerald and radiant cuts. These timeless elements offer a sense of old-world romance while still feeling deeply intentional—perfect for those who want their ring to hold both history and sentiment.

Elongated diamond cuts and East–West settings are also taking centre stage. Shapes like marquise, oval, and elongated cushions are not only flattering on the hand but lend a graceful, elongated presence that feels both modern and softly dramatic. The East–West orientation—where the stone is set horizontally—is especially favoured by clients looking to reinterpret tradition in a fresh, contemporary way.

Coloured precious stones are becoming a signature of modern romance. Sapphires in blue, teal and pastel tones, emeralds symbolising renewal and champagne or fancy-coloured diamonds all add unique character to engagement rings, turning them into wearable narratives rather than predictable designs.

Another noticeable evolution is the rise of sculptural and architectural band designs. We're seeing a move away from ultra-delicate bands toward bolder profiles—wider shanks, artistic curves, and organic twists. These designs aren’t just visual statements; they reflect strength, individuality, and the evolving ways couples are redefining partnership.

Settings are becoming more intentional and refined. Bezel and semi-bezel settings are favoured for their clean, modern aesthetic and practical durability—ideal for everyday wear without compromising on luxury. Meanwhile, hidden halos and Toi et Moi (dual-stone) rings are growing in popularity, offering layers of symbolism and subtle brilliance that reveal themselves over time.

Above all, the most powerful trend of 2025 is a return to personal storytelling. Couples are seeking custom engagement rings rather than store-bought pieces. Deeply bespoke engagement rings are heavily on the rise, to reflect values, heritage, or shared milestones. Whether through hidden details, mixed metals, heirloom integration, or symbolic gemstone pairings, the engagement ring is no longer just a proposal piece; it’s a personal archive of meaning and legacy.

 

Extravagant bespoke engagement ring designed by Layla Kaisi Collection.

Can You See Your Bespoke Ring During The Process?

 

Yes. At LKC, transparency is at the heart of creating a ring you’ll cherish for a lifetime. Throughout the process, we share initial concepts, refined renders and can also provide 3D visuals that reveal your design from every angle. You are not simply purchasing a ring from LKC; you are immersed in its creation, shaping every detail alongside us.

How Do You Care for a Handmade Engagement Ring?

 

A bespoke engagement ring is a lasting treasure; and caring for it preserves not only its beauty but the story it carries. The simplest way to clean it is to soak the ring in lukewarm water with mild soap, gently brushing away buildup around the setting with a soft brush. Avoid harsh chemicals such as bleach or chlorine, which can weaken metals and dull precious stones.

We recommend an annual professional inspection, during which your ring is expertly buffed and polished, restoring its radiant brilliance as if it were newly crafted. For daily care, remove your ring during physical activities such as sports or gardening to prevent accidental knocks or scratches and store it in a soft, fabric-lined box separate from other jewellery.

If your design features softer precious stones, such as emeralds, handle them with extra care to protect their natural character and lustre from scratching.

Discover more jewellery care tips from LKC here.

 

Extravagant bespoke engagement ring designed by Layla Kaisi Collection.

What Sets LKC Apart: The Art of True Bespoke Jewellery Design

 

At LKC, we do not design for the many; we create for the rare; for those who understand that true luxury is defined by intention. Every ring begins with a conversation, where we listen to your story before ever picking up a pencil or tool.

Our commitment to ethical sourcing, complete transparency throughout the design journey and master craftsmanship in New Zealand set us apart. Guided by an extravagant eye for detail, artistry and storytelling, we create more than jewellery; you collaborate with artisans who shape your ring as a piece of living history, designed to be as meaningful as it is extraordinary.

No two LKC rings are ever the same because no two love stories are ever the same.

Frequently Asked Questions: Your Key Concerns Answered

How long does it take to design and craft a bespoke engagement ring?

 

The bespoke process typically takes between 3 to 6 months, though the timeline can vary depending on design complexity, stone sourcing and whether any custom cutting or special materials are required. The journey begins with an in-depth consultation, followed by a design phase where sketches, digitally aided renderings, or 3D visuals are reviewed and refined. Once the design is approved, our master jewellers meticulously handcraft the ring in our Auckland workshop. 

For designs featuring high value pieces such as fancy-coloured diamonds valued at six figures or more, extra security measures and extended handling time may be necessary to guarantee the safe transport and delivery of the stone to our Auckland studio. LKC will share further details with you during your consultation.

For couples working to a specific proposal date, we guide you through realistic timeframes from the very first consultation.

How much should I budget for a bespoke engagement ring in New Zealand?

 

At LKC, pricing is thoughtfully guided by your choice of materials, the stone selection, and the intricacy of the design. To explore the minimum investment required for Custom or Bespoke Jewellery, simply reach out to our team.

From your very first consultation, you’ll receive a clear and detailed breakdown of how your investment is allocated, so there are no surprises along the way. We work closely within your preferred budget, offering expert advice on balancing stone size, quality, and design complexity to craft a piece that is both meaningful and timeless.

Is it safe to design a bespoke ring virtually?

 

Absolutely! The majority of our clients are based outside Auckland and internationally; so we have refined a fully secure and highly personal online bespoke design process. Virtual consultations via video call replicate the in-person experience, allowing us to explore inspiration, review design concepts and discuss materials in detail. All communication is direct and transparent and secure payment methods are used for every stage. Whether you’re designing remotely or in person, you are guided step by step, ensuring the same level of craftsmanship and attention to detail.

For more information on shipping and production, please visit our dedicated page here.

Can you incorporate heirloom stones?

 

Yes, we can incorporate heirloom stones into your bespoke piece, provided the overall design meets specific design and structural requirements. Repurposing family stones or precious metals is one of the most meaningful aspects of bespoke jewellery, allowing you to transform inherited materials into a design that feels fresh while honouring their history. This thoughtful process not only deepens the emotional significance but also weaves a legacy that connects past and future love stories.

Final Thoughts: Begin Your Engagement Ring Journey

 

A bespoke engagement ring is far more than just a piece of jewellery; it is a living symbol of your unique love story, designed to be cherished, worn and remembered for a lifetime.

At LKC, we warmly invite you to embark on a personalised journey where every detail truly matters. From selecting the perfect precious stone to co-authoring each elegant sculptural curve, every choice is made with thoughtful intention and deep reverence. Our expert artisans and designers collaborate closely with you to create a one-of-a-kind masterpiece that reflects your individual style, values and the enduring bond you share.

Begin your bespoke engagement ring experience with LKC today, and transform timeless materials into a meaningful legacy treasured for generations to come.

Image of Layla Kaisi Collection bespoke rings on a person in a white blazer for the Layla Kaisi Collection Journal

Layla Kaisi Collection

Layla Kaisi Collection is an ultra-luxury jewellery house crafting rare, one-of-a-kind pieces that exist beyond trends. Known for pushing the boundaries of design and sourcing some of the world’s most elusive gemstones, each creation is a masterwork of storytelling and soul. Founded by designer Layla Kaisi, the brand is built on exclusivity, intention, and artistic rebellion—inviting clients into a private world where luxury is felt, not flaunted. From red carpets to private collections, LKC is for those who know true rarity when they see it.

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